Monday, August 17, 2026

Our Back Porch

Every single morning, year-round, as soon as I wake up and I make my coffee, I go out and sit on our back porch. 

We have lived in our Bushfork home since 2015, and the enclosed porch has become a refuge for my soul. Whether it's spring or summer with the water fountain running, or late fall and winter with the space heater on and me bundled up, I spend an hour or two there every single morning without fail.

I spend the first few minutes settling in, appreciating, and thanking our Father for His Son, this day, this life, and this space. After offering my praise, I quiet my heart to listen - then listen more deeply through His Word.

This time on my porch has become a large part of me. It is woven into my being and my soul. My time on the porch is filled with every sweet and precious memory I carry in my heart..

It's the sweet scent of Honeysuckle filling the air while in Arkansas in April..

sleeping in our Cheshire house with the windows open and listening to the rain gently falling on the leaves..

the beautiful sunrises in Key West..

hearing the mantle clock softly tick and chime while sleeping at our Vo'Vo and Feety's house while growing up..

watching mom play the piano with her grandchildren..

picking and eating the big, ripe raspberries straight from the bush in the backyard of my New Britain apartment..

the man behind me at Aldi's who was dancing because it was his 87th birthday and he was going to have a big party that day..

the little girl at the Boiling Springs library with the pink cowboy boots singing "It's a Small World After All" again and again and again..

looking out the window in the early morning haze in Rhode Island and seeing my Dad gracefully move through his Tai Chi routine..

being at my sister Leah's house and looking out the kitchen window and watching her tend to her flower garden knowing how much peace it brings her..

being on the receiving end of Bill's love every single day..

being in Turkey during a training exercise and looking up and seeing all the stars - the millions and millions of stars..

the beautiful, flowing brook that ran along the side of our house in Bristol..

lying in bed and hearing Missy next to me snoring..

the precious little girl at CVS paying for her greeting card with money she took out of her little purple plastic purse..

swinging on the tree swing Bill made for me.. 

watching my Dad blow bubbles in the back yard with Morgan..  

after a rainstorm, seeing the full double rainbow while in Fort Jackson..

all the mornings sitting on the front porch with Emil and Missy watching the day slowly begin..

the cheese 'skirt' you get when you make grilled cheese sandwiches..😊

being at the Baltimore Airport and being blessed to see an Honor Flight returning and coming off the plane..

playing in the canal, creeks and woods when I was a little girl growing up in Wallingford, Ct..

dogs in cars. Always dogs in cars..

when Glenn Holland walks into the auditorium at the end of "Mr. Holland's Opus" to see the impact he truly had on everyone's life..

The Sound of Music..

the older gentleman at the Flea Market "helping me" back up into a spot..

the full moon. The half moon. The crescent moons. All the moons..

all the time I spent with my dear friend Ms. Ruth in the six years I knew her..

sending, getting and saving handwritten notes..

seeing the first daffodils of spring..

and waking each day to witness the Lord's mercy, goodness, love and glory again and again.

This is what sitting on my back porch feels like to me. It is my prayer for you that you all have or find your own 'back porch'. πŸ’–

P.S. If you comment and leave your name, I will give you $1.00* Yessiree!  One whole dollar! You can have it in quarters or the kind that folds - your call πŸ˜ƒ

* I am not above bribery to find out who reads my blog and who writes such wonderful comments but doesn't leave their name. 



32 comments:

  1. wow Janet! Just WOW another reminder of it's truly the small things Lisa D but please don't send a buck hee hee

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    1. ❤️ Thank you Lisa! Thank you for always reading and being so supportive πŸ™πŸ˜Š

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  2. Janet, what wonderful memories you have!! You have such a way of seeing the beauty in people and things. It’s a great reminder to “hold fast that which is good” and put the disturbing and negative things out of our mind. And I’ve had the pleasure of sitting on that porch with you; it truly is a very special place. Thank you for sharing❤️

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    1. Thank you my dear Linda ❤️. Sitting on your porch and being covered in your friendship and your prayers were what my poor hurting heart yearned for when I was hurting so bad. I will always be grateful and hold you as a treasure in my heart ❤️πŸ™. Thank you for reading and always be so encouraging 😊

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  3. Beautifully written. I have found a spot on our back deck. We will see how it goes when fall and winter are here, but for now, I sit and watch the birds at the feeders, the leaves moving on the trees and the quiet. Thank you for sharing your stories. Jacky

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    1. Jacky, that sounds so peaceful and soul filling. I'm so glad you have a special to enjoy and spend time with nature. Thank you for always being so supportive ☺️❤️

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  4. I love your encouraging posts. Your insight’s to God’s creation all around reflect your beautiful heart and mind. Thank you for all you share! ❤️

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    1. Thank you for reading and commenting your kind words πŸ™❤️

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  5. What a great blog and an even better memory!

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    1. Thank you sweetie πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

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  6. Another gem….thsnks for sharing….—TJ

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    1. Thank you TJ! Always appreciate you ☺️

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  7. What fabulous memories! They all made me smile and think of my own. We did not get to see each other much in our youth but I could also picture your family in each of those scenes. πŸ₯°
    Thank you for sharing this Janet! It gives all a reminder to take a few moments to stop and “smell the roses”. (Gretchen)

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    1. Thank you Gretchen ☺️ You are always so sweet, kind and supportive. Love you - thank you for reading and commenting ❤️πŸ™

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  8. Oh Janet- while reading your memories I was seeing and feeling my own. πŸ’ Thank you for letting us on your back porch with you- such a beautiful way to start the day and an inspiration to take time to do the same!! 🫢🏻 (PS- Thanks for the offer, but no dollar necessary! 😘)

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    1. Thank you Terri for always being such an encouraging voice and supportive friend. ❤️πŸ™

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  9. Such a beautifully written piece about loving memories. Made my heart glad
    on a morning when I really needed it.

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    1. Awwwe, thank you so much for the sweet words. Gentle hugs ❤️πŸ™

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  10. This is like reading the sweetest part of a book. Thank you for writing again and sharing. I guess the “$1.00” offer is the “inflation of “A penny for your thoughts
    πŸ€—πŸ˜˜Margaret

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    1. Love that "sweetest part of a book" thank you my friend. Always appreciate you reading and commenting ❤️

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  11. I absolutely lover your writing❣️What beautiful and special memories you have, thank you for sharingπŸ’“Reading this makes me take a minute and reflect on things I'm grateful for too, we definitely are lucky! The porch is a special place...there's nothing better than sitting on the porch, listening to the sounds of nature and admiring the beauty around us. My favorite is when the hummingbirds visit which unfortunately isn't as often as yours do πŸ˜‚ Thanks for starting my morning off so beautifully and have a great day!!! 🌞🌞🌞 Deanna

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    1. Deanna, how thoughtful and precious you are. Thank you. I'm glad you have a place that fills and nurtures you too! Hoping to see you when I come to CT ☺️❤️

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  12. You are such a wonderful writer. What a good reminder to relax and enjoy the memories and soak up the beauty of God’s creation. - Ginger

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    1. Ginger, how sweet you are. Thank you for reading and for sharing ❤️

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  13. Ahhh, love your porch. especially when it's raining, This writing brought back so many memories...thank you. Love you forever , Mom..

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    1. . Mom, it is the best when it rains! Lots of sweet and special memories ❤️❤️

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  14. Thank you for such a beautiful reminder of all the wonderful things God gives us to enjoy!!!You are such a blessing!!! We sit out on our front porch for a little while each morning and enjoy our coffee!! also the birds that bring so much joy!! It truly is the little things among God's glorious big things that gives such peace!!! Thank you for always sharing your amazing thoughts!!!

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful mornings too Renee ❤️. Always appreciate you reading and sharing. πŸ™❤️

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  15. Oh, Janet, this is so beautiful. Your back porch sounds amazing. I love starting my day with prayer, gratitude, and silence... but if I go out on my deck at any time...I have to be prepared to play fetch over and over again with my crazy dog, Riley. He will drop balls or dog toys at my feet over and over again and then whine and bark until I play. I have to close the curtains on my sliding door and pretend I am going out in the car, then sneak around the side of the house to sit peacefully on my deck. It is hard work to sneak my Bible, journal, and coffee out there without Riley noticing. I usually find time to escape, go to my empty church after 8 am, and sit in silence. I pray every day to hear our Father's voice. I love reading your posts. Love you!

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    1. Sweet Beth. Thank you so much for reading and for always being so supportive. I really do appreciate it. I love that you have been able to find your place and know that He can be found in so many places. I bet that 'crazy' Riley gives you joy that fills your heart with the Lord. Thank you for sharing. I love you too my friend.

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  16. I just stumbled upon your sweet blog and I'm glad I did! I have a backporch where I have my morning coffee and it is my favorite spot to sit and look at God's creation. I do, however, miss so many blessings that surround me. Thanks for the reminder to look and listen.

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    1. Awwwwwe. Thank you Pam and welcome! I so appreciate you reading and for your kind words. I'm so glad that you have your own place too. God truly is good. Thank you again for reading. janet

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